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A GROUNDED APPROACH TO ASSISTANCE & DEVELOPMENT:
Virtues First strives not to impose a way of life that a culture would not choose for themselves. Instead, we work directly with communities to assist them in making the changes they would choose for themselves. In fact, we strive to ground ourselves in a greater understanding of how the people live and, from there, how they would like to improve their living conditions. For example, in the image (right) you see Indian women cooking in a traditional way in a small enclosure without a roof. And some well-meaning people might like to give them chairs or tables, not understanding that these women are not likely to use them (although they might try to sell them). And even if they did, the chair is likely to begin to weaken their back and knees (as is the case with most westerners over the age of 40) which can eventually make it difficult to squat; which is quite necessary in this culture for so many things, including going to the toilet. I could go on and on, but the main point is that changing the "old ways" is not necessarily changing to the better ways when put into context. Nevertheless, when it rains the women pictured above have to take their cooking indoors which obviously creates lots of smoke inside. This is not healthy for anyone! So in this case Virtues First may offer to put a covering over the cooking area - not enclosing it but just keeping the rain off of them and the food while they cook - while letting the smoke escape. So although you might want to build them a "better" more westernized kitchen (and bless your heart for offering) ultimately that sort of thing can get very culturally complicated and less cost effective in terms of actual needs. --->

Virtues First looks for the greater need and this starts with simply asking the people. For sometimes, out of politeness, the people will smilingly accept whatever is suggested but (like the chair example) not use it. Thus, in addition to asking the people, we also consult with advisors who deeply know about these sorts of situations. For example, in regards to this uncovered kitchen situation, Edna DelRosario, a filipino woman who grew up in a poor small village of similar circumstances, told us she used to cook the same way as the women pictured above. But her adamant advice was not to assume anything and simply "Ask the people what they need." There are many other reasons for this (including politeness and respect towards the people we want to help) that we won't go into here. But, instead, we would like to emphasize, again and again, that often what is provided is never even used. It is a pitfall of many well-meaning "helping" organizations. Wherein, the money used for something like a chair that they wouldn't even use, could've gone towards things they really would use - things that are not only truly necessary, but possibly urgent.
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